Something I can put my finger on
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Sunday, January 24, 2010
mawar putih
Ku suntingkan mama Sekuntum mawar putih
Sebagai lambang kesucian cintaku
.Kau sinaran bulan Menyerikan bitang-bintang.
.Kaulah fajar yang menerbitkan pagi.
.Kau sirami embun Menyegarkan pepohonan.
.Kau bukakan tabir siang untukku .
.Ku berikan mama Kasih sayang maha suci.
.Betapa agungnya Tiada ternilaikan.
p/s:Oh mama, mamaku
Tiada cinta yang suci
Setulus cintamu
Tiada cinta yang suci
Setulus cintamu
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Friday, January 22, 2010
I'm torn
He was warm, he came around like he was dignified
He showed me what it was to cry
Well you couldn't be that man I adored
You don't seem to know, don't seem to care what your heart is for
But I don't know him anymore
There's nothing where he used to lie
My conversation has run dry
That's whats going on, nothing's fine I'm torn
I'm all out of faith, this is how I feel
I'm cold and I am shamed lying naked on the floor
Illusion never changed into something real
I'm wide awake and I can see the perfect sky is torn
You're a little late, I'm already torn
So I guess the fortune teller's right
Should have seen just what was there and not some holy light
To crawl beneath my veins and now
I don't care, I have no luck, I don't miss it all that much
There's just so many things that I can't touch,
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
u raise me up... god
When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
;
until you come and be with me.
take a time
How many times have you heard your kids say, "You're ruining my life!" It's pretty common. Sometimes it's just teenage drama but parents actually DO overstep sometimes, accordingly to famed child expert Dr Michele Borba. Here's her advice... it's a wake up call for parents!
Let’s face it, friends play an enormous part of our children’s self-esteem and success quotient for life. I’m often asked whether parents really can influence their children’s ability to make friends. My answer is always a resounding: “Yes!” After all, parents can be a tremendous impact on kids’ social lives, but they can hinder and even harm their children’s friendship chances as well.” Here are ten ways parents can rain on their kids’ social parade. (That’s a hint: so watch out, Mom and Dad! Just a few things to think about!)
10 Worst Things Parents Do to Ruin Kids’ Social Lives
1. Set a Terrible Example. Do you tell your kids to have good manners, but then verbally abuse your waiter? Do you tell your kids not to talk about people behind their back, and then pick up the phone to gossip? Don’t expect your kids to be a good friend unless you are.
2. Be a Pushy Stage Mom. Do you insist that your shy son have a huge birthday party even though he’d rather invite his one close friend? Have you tried to make play dates for your kid from names on the social page? Don’t think you can muscle your kid into friendships that only you care about.
3. Act Like a Micro-Managing Drill Sergeant. Do you orchestrate every minute of your child’s time with his friends? Do you hover at every play date constantly darting back and forth with some concern? Don’t hyper-parent or prevent your child from gaining his own friendship experiences.
4. Make Your Home as Sterile as an Operating Room. Do your child’s friends feel like they ought to wear white gloves when they come over? Do you insist they take off their shoes and never touch anything? Don’t be so up tight about being orderly that your kid and his friends can’t feel relaxed.
5. Act Like a Brontosaurus. Do you embarrass your kids in front of their friends, by not understanding their language or culture? Do you insist that your kid dress like he’s starring in Grease? Don’t refuse to change when it comes to customs that are really important to your kids and their friends.
“cry because it's over. Smile because it begin."
someone has told me this,
You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
need to change it?
are there same?
The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
love
Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.
fatinamirrah:)
friend:)
“A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities.”
life
“You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you might find, you get what you need”
Monday, January 18, 2010
happy birthday boy!
.alqaaf zainal abidin.14 january 2008.2 tahun.
“Last week the candle factory burned down. Everyone just stood around and sang Happy Birthday.”
-Stephen Wright-
Thursday, January 14, 2010
its driving me crazy that i cant have it all
can i have all of the above?
do you want a lover or do you want a life?
one hand or the other the butter or the bread knife?
do you choose winter spring summer or fall?
do we hold the future or does it come in peace?
and if its in my hands are you sure it should be in brittle hands like these?
life love and the pursuit of all the things they promised me
one hand or the other the butter or the bread knife?
do you choose winter spring summer or fall?
do we hold the future or does it come in peace?
and if its in my hands are you sure it should be in brittle hands like these?
life love and the pursuit of all the things they promised me
are the best things in life truly free?
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
On a different day if I was safe in my own skin
.I just want to feel safe in my own skin
.I just want to be happy again
.I just want to feel deep in my own world
.I just want to be happy again
.I just want to feel deep in my own world
.headache.
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